Monday, March 16, 2009

Love Story



Remember how I said after making my first 1945 dinner menu how much better the food I prepared for myself tasted? Well, I think I'm gonna have to take that back. Two dinners later, I'm finding myself so tired from the workout in the kitchen that I can hardly taste my meal.

And it is such a workout. Balancing a great pot of potatoes as you carry them over to drain in the sink. Twisting about between the pots on your stovetop so you can lift the lid on one without injuring yourself with steam from another. Just working in all that heat is a challenge. I turned my air conditioning up and pulled my hair back simply to try and feel a little more cool. By the time I sat down to dinner, I was wiped - and almost not even hungry enough to enjoy the meal.

Whipped Potatoes
Buttered Beets
Tossed Greens Salad
Chiffonade Dressing
Chocolate Pudding

I suppose this is the same kind of curve anybody goes through as they're getting in shape. Toning the muscles, learning the moves... I have to remind myself that the most I've done in "making dinner" for years has been: Open box. Heat in oven. This is a whole new world for me, and it's going to take some time. I hope! It really makes me wonder what dinner was like for Mother back in the '40s. Could she really enjoy a meal as much as might her husband and children when she had worked sooooooooo hard to plan it, shop it, and prepare it?

The 1940s seem to have been an era when home-cooked and commercially prepared foods both found a home at the dinner table. I'm trying to keep that tradition myself, including at least one item that's somewhat ready-to-eat. Last week: Canned Green Beans. This week: boxed Chocolate Pudding mix. These items were both readily available to most American households and - for a "bachelor girl" like myself - would have been particularly important. What a blessing they must have seemed to a busy '40s housewife! Even one course - made one or two steps easier --- what a gift. We see prepared foods today with such an overlay of their nutritional dangers. The MSG, the sodium, the preservatives and additives, the trans-saturated fats. It's hard to remember how wonderful they must once have seemed. And in their infancy, prepared foods weren't quite as chock full of the not-so-good stuff as they are today. They were still relatively basic, but what a help to knock even a quarter-hour off the time it took to prepare dinner...

Another miracle - the dishwasher. This was an appliance available only in the '40s to those with some serious cash. As hard as you work towards preparing a meal - and as nice as it would be to relax at the table and enjoy your meal - the dirty pots and pans and cooking utensils can absolutely haunt you! In my case, it was the red water from my pot of beets that had splattered all over my nice, clean stovetop. All I could think about was how nice it had been to see my reflection in my stovetop the day before. Would the beet juice stain? What about the cutting board? Would it be forever pink? There was still some milk left in a saucepan since I'd overestimated how much I needed for the Whipped Potatoes. Would it stick terribly to the pan?

Having worked so hard over this meal, it was great to scrape and rinse and whisk those dishes out of sight. I used to think of my dishwasher as my archnemesis. It didn't seem to clean the dishes very thoroughly. There was always that nasty crumb tray to clean out. And I never understood the whole rinse/don't rinse debate. "Of course you don't rinse," I thought. "What good does it do to have a dishwasher if it's not going to do the job for you?" Well, I'm here to tell you... it's all about the rinse. Since I started rinsing dishes before putting them in the dishwasher (per the manual), I've found that only an occasional dish or utensil has a bit of residue and needs to be soaked and re-washed. The crumb tray? I haven't had to clean it in weeks. 1940s housewives who were lucky enough to own a dishwasher must have cleaned 'em 'til they shone and kissed 'em when no one was looking!

11 comments:

weenie_elise said...

if it's hot, you may not have prepared a full meal back then, just some cold salads and leftover meats...

but yes, sometimes cooking can be hard work

Jo said...

Cooking is an enormous learning curve, but will become second nature in the end. Try repeating a favourite dish or combination of dishes several times, and you will get into the groove. You sound like you are doing a fabulous job with breakfast...which I have to admit, I rarely cook for my family, except for porridge. Are you still doing a cooked breakfast as well?

Jitterbug said...

Oh, yes! Still eating a home-cooked breakfast. This morning it's Grapefruit and Cracked Wheat Cereal, i.e. Wheatena. It's not my favorite cereal, but I've found I can almost stomach it with lots of brown sugar and raisins thrown in the pot.

Weenie_Elise, I can remember my mother doing up cold suppers - salads, etc. - during the summer when we were kids. Just on the very worst days, though. The trick with where I live know is that it's going to be summer until October, so seven months of cold suppers doesn't really work either. I think I'll have to soldier on and maybe remember to operate the ceiling fan in the kitchen.

Mrs G said...

No you've made me curious as to where you live? I'm in Canada, so I certainly don't have to worry about summer till October!

Mrs G said...

I meant to say that I don't have to worry about summer lasting until October. It's done before that!

Anonymous said...

I really enjoy your blog but I find it so amazing how different we all are! I don't think I know anyone who doesn't cook and very few who don't cook from scratch...do you think it's cultural? My mum always cooked from scratch (I'm only 31) so we were always exposed to it... Do your readers cook from scratch?

I just find it so interesting! You have really changed the way I clean our house - thanks!

Jitterbug said...

Mrs G --- I'll trade with you! I live in the southwestern U.S. I moved out here from New England a little over two years ago when my sister was expecting her first child.

rebecca77, my mother actually cooks just about every meal from scratch - so my lousy housekeeping skills must baffle her. I kind of enjoying housekeeping when I moved into my first apartment in my early twenties, but it just went downhill from there and I've gotten very lazy over the years about making meals. Maybe it comes from living alone. It's not all that fun to cook for yourself. I've always liked having guests and cooking for them!

Packrat said...

Late comment - It is difficult to cook for one or even two. After years of cooking from scratch, I find myself wanting to buy "throw it in the microwave" stuff.

Side note: Even though I'm in Idaho where summer is only from mid-June through maybe September (usually with cold bouts in between), there used to be a summer kitchen on our property. I often wish it was still available. (The summer kitchen is now the garage.)

Oh, my mom had a dishwasher in the 50's, but I don't have one! (I would love one!)

Anonymous said...

I think you are right - as I read your reply I was taken back to a share house I lived in where we all had our own food - silly really. I used to buy take away and frozen meals and make bulk batches and eat the same thing for a week...boring! I really do get it :)!

Jitterbug said...

The single thing really makes it a challenge, I guess. Well, if we didn't have a few challenges to overcome, life wouldn't be very interesting! Though sticking to these menus is kind of an experiment for curiosity's sake, I'm definitely hoping to come away with some new cookery skills and a better appreciation for whole foods.

This weekend's 1945 dinner includes what'll be my first elaborate dessert!

Cajun Girl Living In The Mountains said...

I have to comment since I am just reading from the beginning!

I have not had a dishwasher or microwave for about five years now. There are times, I dreadfully miss the dishwasher and am debating getting one. Hand washing dishes sometimes deters me from making parts of meals just because I do not feel up to the task of scrubbing!

I have been making the switch over the last couple of years from buying premade items very often. Almost every day, I cook meals for the Mr. and me. It is quite tough work!

You are doing so wonderfully in all that you are doing!

LPM